Car Parade and a Grandpa’s Star Musings

A line of cars blocked the driveway, extending out into the street. Cars within the lot circled the rows, patiently scouting for spots. Other vehicles drove up onto the front lawn, green grass hidden under a layer of snow. Later arrivals, seeing the depleted spaces, crossed the street to a sprawling shopping mall to borrow their quiet Sunday afternoon parking spots. 
Inside the church, it was a family reunion and memorial rolled into one. A dear grandpa from our church died on Thursday, and yesterday was his funeral. The worship center was packed, and hardworking ushers scurried to bring more chairs, lining the outdoor hallway with additional rows. Inside, sons spoke through tears, and friends sang harmonious hymns from another era. 
The Bible passage our dear grandpa friend had chosen ahead of time marveled at God’s majestic creative powers, mentioning the stars and cosmos, then wondering tenderly, “What is man that you are mindful of him?” 
At the end of the service, we were suddenly given a beyond-the-grave chance to hear this grandpa’s voice and heart again. In a video recorded a week before his death, our gallant grandpa and his fragile wife sat close to each other on a hospice bed. In painstaking breaths, he thanked his God for the many gifts throughout life. He recounted his story of hearing of God’s goodness and choosing to follow him, and the long journey that followed. Reaching out to squeeze his wife’s hand, he counted gift after gift of God’s goodness. In the same breath, he confessed his own failings and shortcomings, leading the topic back again to His Creator’s faithful, extravagant love. Lavished love, unworthy recipients, radical grace…
Wiping tears, I listened and rejoiced. “Well done, good and faithful servant.” 
I follow his lead today too, and link with Ann, in counting gifts: 
for a sister’s visit and sweet nuzzles from my baby niece
-for hot coffee and a Bible and pen
-for a husband that cooks omelets for us, and starts Bible conversations
-for laughter with old friends over Chinese food and games
-for a church family reunion and for older people in my life who show me Jesus 
-for you, my new and old reading friends! Thank you for joining me here, for stopping by, for honoring me with your presence — whether you have time to comment or not. 
What about you? What did you do this weekend? In what ways did you see Jesus this week? Count some gifts with me tonight.
-Photos from IStock Microsoft Clip Art

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  1. charis on January 31, 2012 at 4:30 am

    wow! what a testimony of a life lived until the very end in faithful service to the Lord.

    just stopping by from ann's link up… you are one of the links next to mine.

    great list of thanks!

    my recent post: how to change what your heart loves

  2. Houseofmills on January 31, 2012 at 3:12 pm

    Thanks for making me cry this morning. =)
    so wish I could of been there too. Was thinking of you all that day. What a neat man he was!!!!

  3. Danielle on January 31, 2012 at 4:40 pm

    Oh, what a legacy to leave!! How precious.

    This weekend was filled with Fellowship, House Church and planning for our Mission trip to Africa in a couple weeks. Wheee!(We'll be going to Lagos Nigeria for 14 days. It has been on my heart to go there for about 10 years. God is finally answering that desire. I, my husand and daughter cannot wait.)

    As to your question about She Speaks… I have gone the last three years! I am in love with the conference, all we learn and the sisters God has connected my heart to there. I am in the process of praying and working with the Father for what I will do there.;-)

    Blessings, sister!

  4. Jennifer Dougan on February 1, 2012 at 12:05 am

    Hi Charis,

    Nice to meet you. Thanks for stopping by my site from Ann's linkup. She is phenomenal, isn't she?

    Your title post is piquing my interest… 🙂

    Jennifer Dougan

  5. Jennifer Dougan on February 1, 2012 at 12:10 am

    Hi Liz/Houseof Mills,

    Yes, it was a poignant funeral. I have respected their gentle kind and patient marriage relationship to each other. It teaches me!

    I miss you. Want to come for coffee some evening?


  6. Jennifer Dougan on February 1, 2012 at 12:14 am


    Nice to talk to you a bit more here. Wow, Nigeria can be a dangerous place sometimes with the persecution of Christians. I'm sure you are working with people there who know the right places to go and when to come. My parents are in Senegal right now and hearing political unrest around them today, in fact. Some tear gas, etc. I love West Africa though, and lived in Liberia and Ivory Coast for awhile.

    She Speaks is wonderful! Which tracks have you taken the most of?


  7. Glenda Parker Fiction Writer on February 1, 2012 at 9:35 pm

    What a great post. It's awesome to hear the saint who give God praise and glory even if things don't always go our way. God is always good and His mercy endures forever. God bless you.

    Glenda Parker

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